I’m a Canadian Born Desi (also known as a CBD!) raised in Brampton, Ontario, originally of Punjabi descent.
I call Toronto my hometown and will return this Spring, 2026, to pursue my dream of a PhD in Political Science.
In the meantime I’m waiting out the winter months in Victoria, British Columbia, searching for an authentic boyfriend experience to keep cozy through the cold.
Who Is AJ Dhillon?
Never married, no kids, so I don’t qualify for MILF status but I can cosplay as a cougar if that’s your style. My usual type leans toward older and experienced gentlemen but, as a midlife hottie in her prime, I’m open to taking risks as long as we go there with care together. I workout and stay active, make art, volunteer, and have a great group of friends. The only thing missing is that secret seductive spark with a special someone. Is that you?
When and where will we meet?
Let’s connect in downtown Victoria, either at your upscale hotel in the Inner Harbour, or at my place in charming Chinatown.
I recently quit a fast-paced life behind-the-scenes of a few of your favourite nonprofit advocacy campaigns. Now I’m a night-owl moonlighting as a memoir writer. Afternoons and evenings typically work best on my end, but I’ll happily have you help usher me awake in the morning if that’s what the day calls for, feel free to make me an offer I can’t refuse.
Maybe you find yourself in town for business or vacation. Blowing off steam is my specialty. Or perhaps you’re looking for an ongoing connection in this pretty little city. Let’s explore on our first date and take it from there. I adore sensual experimentation, and think life’s too short to limit the imagination on pleasure, wouldn’t you agree?
How do we make the magic happen?
My strong preference is to find a friend with an established history in this hobby. That is to say that the best way to make our first date is to email me with contact information for a companion from your recent past for screening purposes. I will need an email address and a link to their website and/or ad.
If you are brand new to this but are ready to take the plunge with a mature and refined woman such as myself, reach out via email with an introduction on why you think we’re a good match, and if I agree I’ll offer an alternative option for identity verification.
I ask for a 400/1hr or 600/2hrs as a token of commitment when we meet for the first time. If we want to see each other again then we can make an arrangement based on what works best for the the both of us. Who knows, if we really like each other we might test out our chemistry in the “real” world, or maybe we decide that “reality” is overrated…
Once you’re ready, get in touch with contact information for a companion from your recent past, including their website and/or ad.
If you're brand new to this, send an introduction on why you think we're a good match, and I’ll share a few alternative options for identity verification.
I’m waiting in anxious anticipation for your email… What are you waiting for?